BBW’s Jennifer Williams Speaks Out On Being Slapped [EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW]
In a day and time where bullying and violence plagues our community on a hourly basis, the perpetrator always fails to consider the repercussions for their actions. Not only are millions of viewers tuned in but so are impressionable kids who now believe that violence is acceptable because that’s what they saw on television. What happened to woman empowerment, standing strong together for our daughters and sisters. How is it possible to teach a to young girl to respect herself if she is watching her favorite TV personality beat up another female? Has reality TV changed the view of morals and respect in our nation. No matter what the case, violence is not the answer and it is never acceptable.
In the current issue of Ebony, an African American network development executive, who wished to remain anonymous, had this to say –
“Reality television shows are cheap to make and the talent is cheap to get. Why spend money on a good script or talent that’s worthwhile when any brown face fighting on the floor will do.”
After viewing a few episodes of various reality shows with different women showing their strength by way of fist instead of intelligence, I clearly noticed that documented female venom was becoming a vicious trend. It worried me and made me ask myself ”why on earth would anyone want the world to see them in this disposition, it’s embarrassing!” The perception that little girls now have on adult black women is what worries me. This behaviour sets us back a good million steps in the “real world’ and that’s REAL. Early this year when I found out Jennifer got slapped by a cast mate I was shocked. Jennifer always speaks out against violence and fighting so I knew that it was something she couldn’t even understand herself. I witnessed her go into a serious state of depression. I became very worried for her. She wouldn’t talk for days and no one was able to locate her. It made me think of all the young girls that deal with violence and name calling at school, these are the same children that commit suicide after being bullied.
I sat down one night last fall and came up with The Reality Check Organization. Our mission is to prove to the young viewers that violence is not the way. We are currently touring the nation speaking at conventions and events for youth. I sat down with Jennifer Sunday evening to talk about the upcoming episode. Here’s a snippet from our conversation – -
Me: Do you wish you would have physically retaliated after you got slapped? What did your mother say about this?
Jennifer: I do not wish that I physically retaliated. I am a businesswoman and an entrepreneur and I don’t want to represent myself as a fighter on TV. When I got hit, my mother was the first person that popped in my head. She was very disappointed this whole situation took place. I was not raised as a fighter or to participate in violence. 
Me: How did you feel after watching this episode?
Jennifer: I honestly could not watch this episode; I have never been hit before. It particularly saddens me to know people condone this type of behavior and glorify violence.
Me: I know you have been working on seeking justice in this situation. How has it been working with your Attorney Sandy Rubenstein and The National Action Network?
Jennifer: Just because I did not fight back physically doesn’t mean I am not fighting back. I am doing this the right way and fighting back using our justice system. Sandy Rubenstein is my civil attorney in NYC and Sabrina Puglisi is my criminal attorney in Florida. The National Action Network has been a tremendous help in assisting me with this issue.
Me: If you could say one thing to the young people that watched last night’s episode, what would it be?
Jennifer: My advice to young people that watched last night’s episode is please do not think violence is the answer.
Me: What does Reality Check mean to you?
Jennifer: Reality Check is near and dear to my heart. I think it is a great organization to promote positivity amongst our youth in the community. I am a strong believer that your foundation is everything and I feel a sense of responsibility to my community to display a positive image.
Me: Are you doing the next season of Basketball Wives?
Jennifer: I can’t even process next season. I still have to do the reunion show.
I am happy to say that Jennifer is dealing with her situation in the most civil way possible.
I myself hope that everyone involved in this scenario will find some clarity, peace and guidance from God. I pray that they will have the heart and mind to know that they are partially resposible for the thoughts and decisions of many young people that watch them and try to be like them. This is more than reality TV, this is Real Life!
PROTECT OUR FUTURE BY PROTECTING THE MINDS OF OUR YOUTH.
Best, Mashonda
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To Jen,thank you for being the bigger person and continue to hold your head up.As far as am concern by you ignoring them its making them very uncomfortable and who are we as people to tell others when they should and should not make friends? You continue to do you and ask for shawnee she is the biggest fake i have ever seen..Be strong love you!
I am so glad that Jennifer conducted herself as a women not as a child. I have been following BBW since it has aired and it has started to have such a negative image of women. From watching the show it just appears that all women can do is argue, fight, and talk about each other behind the others back. I admire Jennifer because she realized that she is a reflection of her mother and that is POWERFUL in its self. Its really sad because all those women on that show are a force to be reckon with and the only time they came be on the same page is when its drama. Nonetheless I am glad that Jennifer has stepped back from all the drama.
I to agree that jennifer is the better person. And I am also tried of seeing them argue and fight all the time. And also for a women that’s say’s she getting married in 5 months seems she should have more important things to do.
Jen,I think you did the right thing,when though I think Evelyn needs to be taught a lesson,you are handling things well,I wish you all the best!
I agree with you. Take her all the the way under the court if you have too. She had no right putting her hands on Jen. And they could have stoppedd her from coming around the table. Tammy moving back as if she was afraid, pleaseee! They just can’t deal with, that you can do without all the drama that Evelyn, has. Keep your head up Jen, I got your back.
I truly believe that Shaunie and the rest of the girls (even Suzie) knew what was going down at the race track. Look how long it took Tami and Shaunie to get up from the table. Shaunie is fake, she don’t like Jen, she’s loyal to Ev and Tami and just as FAKE. Suzie is very unhappy that’s why she’s in the mix of all the drama, maybe she should get motivated with doing something with her life (sad women). This thing with Jen and Ev is not about a blog, It’s about Jen growing from the drama and doing something positive with her life and she’s leaving the rest of them in the dust. Keisha is very smart and sees how hood the girls act. She alot like myself growing up in the country. Tammy talks about most of the girls behind their backs, what world goes she live in?
YESSSSSSSS….CHARLENE…SHAUNIE YOU ARE EXPOSED LIKE YOU GUYS LIKE TO SAY I GUESS SHE TELL HER CHILDREN ITS FOR THE MONEY….ALLLL SHAUNIE NEED IS JESUS…I GUESS SHE NEED A REALITY CHECK ALSO HER CHILDREN ARE OF AGE AND IN THESE TIME….SORRY MAMA THIS IS NOT A GOOD LOOK 4U EVEN THOUGH YOUR NOT THE 1 SWINGING…. ….SMH
TRUTH
Please tell me how to sign the petition. Jenn, thanks for being the better person and role model for young ladies.
Jen, I am sooooooo happy that you are not falling into Ev’s evil pool of jealousy and insecurity. She is so bent on bringing you down to her level and she can not stand that you have easily moved passed her. Ev is once again going for a dead end relationship with a man who is more in love with himself and she hates herself for not having the self worth to walk away from it like you did. Please sue Ev, her silly assistant, Tami, and Shawnee for creating a hostile environment, promoting violence, being violent, and slander. Keep them from ever thinking aboutout hitting someone and from bragging about it! We are 200% behind you!
I was deeply saddened when Jennifer got slapped. I feel that Evelyn is so caught with trying to be a REALITY STAR that her and her so-called asst. will do ANYTHING for rating! VH1 has to do better our Sisters have to be better.. This is not my REALITY! Jennifer keep ya head UP!
Trina – you can say that again….its making them look ugly and I personally think Basketball Wives needs to be taken off the air – it is buffoonery at its best
I am so in agreement with you guys, to see women behave in that manner, because of what? TV ratings, Everlyn you’re mother and soon to be wife and look how u behaving, jumping on table, that is so not classy, shaunie and Tammie are hypocrites. VH1 need to shut down this show
Way to go Jen,
Take her to court. You handled yourself very well under those circumstances. She was wrong and she needs to know you can’t go around slapping people when you don’t agree with what they are saying.
I agree Trina! People like Evelyn and NeNe (RHOA) are truly caught up in THEIR OWN HYPE! So sad…
I am sorry that Jennifer had to endure this situation. I dont agree with violence and never have. I appreciate Mashonda for taking the time to address this and for Jennifer being the bigger person. I am glad Jennifer has a woman and friend like Mashonda in her corner. Our youth need a better example.
Thanks!
Last nights episode was embarrassing to watch as a black women. Shawnee is fake, evelyn is a bully and so is her assistant. Sad-sad! Jen keep your head up girl. These ppl were never your friends.
exactly – a real friend (past or present) would NEVER put their hands on you in anger.
Hi Mashonda,
Thank you for this platform to voice our opinions. The physical fighting On BBW has to stop. It’s so Jr High School. I think Evil leen…. I mean Evelyn is so jealous of Jen. Evil leen has to realized class cannot be bought in a boutique.
me personally think Ev is just upset because Jen called it like she saw it this whole Chad and Ev thing is crazy you just left one ball player and now you are with another knowing the pattern and given Chad’s rep. and Ev got pissed because Jen was right didn’t they have an episode where he pretty much admitted he is banging other women? (EXACTLY) so Ev grow up and get your assistants hair done and go chase Chad because that’s exactly what you are about to do for the rest of your life if you marry him! Jen gets major respect from me
OMG! BossLadyJ! You SHO’ know what to say! You are RIGHT ON THE MONEY!!!!
You are absolutely correct…Jen has proven to be a lady and that’s what bothers them the most. Jen simply don’t care… you know the worst thing you can do to a person is act like they don’t matter and that’s what Jen is doing to Eve. It’s so sad because you can see how frustrated Evelyn is that Jen won’t fool with her. For someone that about to get married and this is supposed to be one of the happiest times in their lives Eve is so miserable. The jealously is so thick, they are hating so hard on Jen.. Shawnee is really just playing everyone and I really don’t think she cares much about any of them. And can someone tell me when did Tammy reach DIVA status. She was just rocking a sad weave last year looking like Dora the Explorer and now she giving fashion tips… Girl please. Jen I honesty hope you past on next season.. I would like to see you doing something a little more tasteful than hanging around with a bunch on phony chics.
I was thinking the same thing. Suzie ran after Evelyn and finally Evelyn accepted her apology. Jennifer has moved on and Evilene can’t stand it. That premiere without Eve was the icing on the cake.
But Evilene really needs to get some therapy along with Tami and her mom, seriously.
Judysea you are so on point. I agree, Tami and Evil Lene are mentally cases, and they seem to be looking for validation from Shaunie. The other women in the show came to the show with a sense of self.
Love this boss lady and he did say that to Eve, Even said what if I brought someone home. would you like them.
i agree totally bosslady. j you are absolutely correct couldnt of said it no better ev will be chasing his behind and jen just told it like it was hes a WHORE AN EV KNOW IT TO B/C SHE GETS DOWN THAT WAY TO THATS WHY THEY WILL MAKE IT (PROBABLY)
You are the only one that has mentioned what the real problem is between Jen and EV, and it is Chad. As a friend Jen was just trying to look out for her best friend when she made the statement, but that is one thing that will come between a friendship and family, is saying anything about your friends man. Evelyn, Tami,and Shaunie needs to be ashame of their selves for this type of behavior, BECAUSE THEY ARE ALL TOO OLD FOR THIS MESS THAT HAS BEEN GOING ON THIS SEASON, I did not realize that these women were so desperate to make a dollar, that they would do anything for it. Jen I am so proud of you, for the way that you handled youself in this situation. (very classy).
It’s so crazy cuz they keep on saying stuff about her “NEW” friends and the thing is just like Jen said yes I fell back from you(eve’s assistant) because you all up Eve’s ass!! & if they think about it why wouldn’t she!! Who wants to hang with people that hang with someone who openly does not like you!!! Then Shaunie & Tami sat there acting like they just don’t have any understanding why she don’t fool with them either……but they be right up Eve’s butt as well!! Now I love the approach Jen is taking but I must say she is at fault as well. I say this because when her & Eve was cool she too was cool with the bullying (THE ROYCE SITUATION) & no she didn’t do anything physical but verbal abuse can be just as bad!! But now that her & Eve aren’t friends she has become a different person. I feel like she was being a follower instead of a leader. I’m glad that she has stepped up in her role as leader but sad these things had to take place for that to happen! We all make mistakes,,,,,,that is inevitable but it’s the lesson we take from those mistakes that will mold us into the person we are truely to become!!
Thank you for sharing this. My heart and support goes out to Jennifer.
Wow, I have so much to say about this and I do not watch the show regularly, but I have in the past. I was deeply saddened by the show last night and that VH1 would allow some “assistant” to be added to the show, just to attack Jennifer. No only that, but for Evelyn to start putting her business out there as well. There is so much hatred going on for no concrete reason and it is playing out on TV. Granted there is a lot of bickering and yelling on reality TV, but why is it that we as Black women have to be the ones to stoop as low as possible for “money, recognition and relevance”? I applaud Jennifer for fighting back the right way and setting a standard.
Jennifer, they so admire you, so all they can do is try to bring you down to
their level,I really think because you are doing you and not catering to them. They are jealous and petty, Evelyn has a teenage daughter who has to be embarassed at her mom’s mouth and drama on the show, she is very disrepectful and so is her little fan Nia.
Thank you Jennifer for representing the black woman as a strong,classy
young lady.
I personally want to commend both of you. Both of you have had pretty high profile divorces and continued to hold your head high. I also am a believer in non viloence and I feel bad watching the show and having some women glorify the situation. This is not the way we should want people to view us as black women its disgusting. Im 22 and have two younger sisters who still have a lot of growing to do and this is not the image I want them to see. My mother is also going through a divorce and she is also changing some of the people she is around and keeping the ones that are growing and have been there for her in a positive way and it’s all for the better and I see that with you as well. I appreciate you both giving young black women someone to look up to. I hope yo continue to receive plenty of blessings!
Keep your heads up. Jenn the light will come out one day
It amazing me what people will do for a dollar. Why sell your soul to the devil? I have lost all respect for Evelyn and Shawnie. They couldn’t have any morals or religious beliefs, because if they did, they would know God don’t like this type of unhanded behavior. It sickens me to see these women being used by another woman. She should know the struggles of African Ameirican women in our society. All this to maintain a lavish lifestyle? Sad, sad, and more. Then, Tammy, Evelyn, and Shawnie have daughters, what kind of message does this give to their children? I refuse to watch this show again! As for Shawnie and Evelyn the same way they make the money, is going to be the same way they lose it. There is no way they can be happy, considering they like to cause misery. Mashonda, I would appreciate the names addresses or contact info for VH1 executives to put an end to this violence. I say we should start a Facebook war against violence on reality shows against women.
DITTO!!!! I would definitly sign that petition.
I am surely feeling you on this one,
Great post La’Shonda!
To Lashonda you can start a petition with Change.org. Where anyone can start a campaign to make a positive change. Violence against a women or anyone is unacceptable. If the roles were reversed and it were a man on this reality show that slapped a woman. All hell would have broken loose. This show might not be on air anymore. This is tacky behavior and however you childish women want to justify your position on the matter, the bottom line is regardless at the end of the day when they all sat down at that table they all had an agenda, with the exception of the two ladies sitting on Jen’s side. Too grown to be that messy. Tacky..
I just signed the petition. Link is “Please go to change.org and sign a petition to cancel the show. This show promotes violence, profanity and bullying. “http://www.change.org/petitions/vh1-cancel-basketball-wives-show-2?utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=share_petition&utm_term=share_with_facebook_friends”" Please tell everyone. I know I am.
Jen has always been a favorite of mine, carrying herself as the women she is with grace and dignity. I’m elated that she has come to her senses and finally released herself from the “garbage and messiness” Evelyn produces. Evelyn isn’t a bully she’s a coward, who conduct herself in a manner of a ghetto mentality female with no morals, values and decency about herself. If someone gets an eye opener and no longer wants to associate themselves with someone, why get mad at them? Jen handled things like the woman she is from what I viewed while watching her on BBW. Great interview Mashonda, may God continue to be of a blessing to you so you can continue to bless us
Well said! I think all the other ladies on the show are afraid of Evelyn, and that’s why they hang around her. It takes more than money to have class. She has money, but she has no class.I’m personally going to stop watching the show. If I want to see violence, I’ll watch “The next 48 hours.”
People grow apart everyday. That’s apart of life. If any of them were your true friends, they would understand that your just at a different place in your life right now. Who wants to be around them if it’s just gonna be drama all the time?! And don’t get me wrong, I like Elv but her anger twards you is somewhere else. For somebody to be that angry at you to say that you guys were so close it’s either jealousy which I highly doubt it, or she’s really hurt. You guys are really gonna have to talk this out or you’re gonna have to have security around you anytime she’s around lol
I applaud Jen for being the bigger person! Honestly, I dont think Evelyn is mad at Jen because of some stupid blog or whatever. I think Evelyn is unhappy with herself and her relationship so she feels the need to take her anger out on other people. No women that is about to get married should be this bitter and angry. Jen, its best to let people like Evelyn and Nia continue to make fools out of themselves. No one EVER takes people like them seriously. I swear the things people will do for money and fame! Jen and Mashonda continue to be the classy women that you are and keep your heads up.
Said well. #TeamJen. Bless her heart.
Jen stay strong and continue being you. I stopped watching the show because I just could not take all of that fighting, but I have to hear about it every Tuesday at work. I have no respect for Shaunie because she enables and instigates it. What was the purpose of the assistant being there if it wasn’t for trouble and why does the cast issues have to be resolved with everyone there. Why because if they were by themselves there would be NO fighting.
I totally agree with u.
I sat with my 13 year old daughter last night who actually likes BBW’s. In reality alot of girls do enjoy these shows, the outfits the glam etc etc. After seeing the slap that Jennifer got, that was it for me. I blame myself for letting her watch it. Never Again. It was sad, and I felt so sad for Jenn. I had to turn off the TV & literally talk to my daughter about how she felt and made her understand that it was wrong. My daughter is smart and agreed with me. Her statement was “Mommy, you never have to worry about me acting that way & I hope no one does something like that to me”. It was uncalled for, BUT its reality TV and this is what the Network is allowing. Love BBW BUT this may change. I hope Jennifer continues to follow through with the process against Evelyn’s Assistant. What surprises me is that Evelyn is a parent herself, Why would she continue to act this way on air.
soo your daughter watched Royce have sex basically have sex on the roof top surrounded by buildings and because Jennifer got slapped, a light bulb popped which made you say “oh my daughter shouldn’t be watching this show” Its been plenty of fist fights that happened previously but because of one slap you nonchalantly brush over the sex scene which showed her whole vagina plus anal cause I saw it all. Imma pat you on your back and say “Good job mom. Your the mother of the Year” FOH SEE YOUR CHILD ON THE NEW UPCOMING SERIOUS OF 14 AND PREGNANT starring your child. This is why Disney and Nickelodeon have Teen shows for children her age and dresses age appropriately. Dont think you was about to get some claps off your comment. That pissed me off of how inattentive you are as a parent. And we wonder why kids are so fast, disobedient, and uncontrollable. I can go in on you all day about how stupid you was to allow your child to watch the show. If you wasn’t there she was gonna watch it regardless, in my opinion she should have been in bed and rested for school the next day. IS SHE EVEN ENROLLED, TO BE OR NOT TO BE, NOW THAT THE QUESTION, IS HER SHOT RECORD UPDATED, HAS SHE BEEN TO THE DENTIST, SHE GOT HER FIRST LACE WIG YET, DID YOU PAID HER PHONE BILL, DID SHE HAVE THAT TALK ABOUT HER MENSTRUATION OR DO SHE HAVE BIRTH CONTROL PILLS ALREADY, MAYBE SHE GOT A PLAN B I DON’T KNOW. AND YES I MIGHT BE IN YOUR BUSINESS BUT U PUT IT OUT THERE THAT YOUR A HORRIBLE MOTHER. THIS JUST ISNT FOR YOU SO DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL. THIS IS FOR THOSE MOTHERS WHO THINK THAT WATCHING THESE TYPE OF SHOWS TOGETHER WITH THEIR CHILDREN IS QUALITY TIME. TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR ROOTS, TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR FAMILY HISTORY, TAKE AN FAMILY OUTING, WATCH EDUCATIONAL PROGRAMS, HELP WITH HOMEWORK, MOTIVATE THEM TO STAY IN SCHOOL AND MAKE GOOD GRADES SO THEY CAN GET INTO A GOOD COLLEGE. THIS IS WHAT I CALLED BAD PARENTING. THE LIFE OF A WANNA BE CELEBRITY IS NOT HOW A CHILD SHOW VIEW LIFE! TO HAVE THEM THINK THAT.. AS LONG AS I GET ME A ATHLETE IM GOING TO BE SET FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE WITHOUT EDUCATION IS NOT CUTE. GET IT TOGETHER. DONT BE MAD AT ME. HELL SOMEBODY HAD TO TELL YOU.
I got some typo’s but u know what i was saying. oh well get over it!
@ Vivian Simpson,
Next time you respond to a post PUHLEEZE do not forget to take your PROZAC. That response to ROSE was uncalled for and off base. I don’t think you would have the nerves to say those things in anyone face.
You need to PRAY real HARD!!!!!
Laughter is good for the soul. What you fail to realize is that your opinion about my comment is not a factor. I don’t need meds nor prayer. I kno the Lord and he heard my cry…huh If you didnt like it GET OVER IT. IM NOT CHANGING MY MIND, I didnt like the fact that her daughter watches a grown rated tv show. so put your head in your ass for taking the time to confront me about something you were not apart of. I did not address you, I was not TALKING to you. Yet your talking to me and I’m telling you now that I DONT GIVE A FUCK! If “ROSE” was near or close Yes those same words would have been said. This is not a blog war. I dont start shit, I finish it. soooo with that being said Mind yo damn business, Tracey Turnblad lmfao before I go clean in on yo ass next. #bingo
Look dont be mad at me cuz I called you out about your daughter watching a show that is inappropriate. Now you wanna clarify that she watched for mindless behavior which was 3 episodes ago that was not in your statement above, which is not my problem…Problem is your LYING because you stated and i quote “rather copied and paste” “Her statement was “Mommy, you never have to worry about me acting that way & I hope no one does something like that to me”.” SO THAT MEANS SHE WATCHED THE DAMN SHOW. My opinion isn’t gonna change its mine! You didnt have to say anything about your daughter in this blog, you brought her in letting everybody know that she watches this show. So like I said you wanted a standing ovation or a round of applause and you got caught twice LYING. Clearly I can read and you need to proofread once again what you say. Somebody need to call the ppl, cuz this mother is out of controll! Hell you should’ve gotten slapped instead of Jen, Why cuz you deserve it. GOOD DAY!
VIVIAN what you are missing is That is ROSE business if she allow her daughter to watch this show. Rather we agree with it or not. This blog was not about her daughter watching the show its about voicing our opinion about the show.
What you don’t realize is that the crazy behavior those women demonstrate on the show, YOU are demonstrating on this BLOG. If I wanted to stoop way way down to your level, TRUST ME, You would not stand a chance. I am a mature and respectful GROWN WOMAN and do not have to put other people down especially ones I don’t know to get my point across. Pray for Peace of Mind!!! Don’t forget to take your MEDS. OOOPS I could’nt help myself.
I tired of talking to you. It does matter if her child watches because it effects how children react today. Re-read the blog and you will see that that is one of the major concerns… You on the other hand are making it seem like its cool. What i want you to do is to put two fingers up and (index and middle)drop the index and that shows how much I care about how you feel. Funny thing is I didn’t ask for your approval on my statement lmfao! Thats funny! Who is the “we” for agreeing… your all by yourself! GET IT NOW. I can say whatever, whenever I want WHY!?!? Cuz its my thoughts and YOU CANNOT SHUT ME UP. IF YOU WERE GROWN… THE ADULT THING TO DO IS TO KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT… sooo TRACEY THATS YOUR NAME RIGHT. I DONT GIVE A FUCK AND LET THIS BE THE LAST TIME I TELL YO RETARDED ASS. Now if “Rose” have something to say them there is a debate. As for you.. once again mind your damn business. I dont give 2 fucks about feelings here. right is right and wrong is wrong! A child should not watch BBW’S ITS INAPPROPRIATE! NOW GET THE FUCK OVER IT AND STOP TALKIN TO ME WITH YA DUMB ASS JOKES.. AIN’T IT BED TIME GO TO BED WITH YA BORED ASS!
YOU Just keep proving me RIGHT!! Your behavior MIRRORS the same type behavior on BBW “NUTCASE”. The more OUTRAGED you get The more you prove me RIGHT. WELL, WELL, My word must really have an EFFECT on you VIVIAN.
I’m quite sure you will have an OBNOXIOUS, OUTRAGEOUS response which will just make me LOL. I’m going to bed now. My work is done here.
Vivian dear, you are really amazing!!! Tracey, thank you for your opinion. Viv I am a business women with a wonderful daughter and a positive role model AGAIN! If you are really getting off by this immature childish game back and forth I truly feel sorry for you. I dont think you have any kids, BUT may the lord bless you sweetie with some class!
PEACE
I know I’m late but on the off chance that your read this the point that you just proved was that If a person does not agree with what another person say or does it is ok to be disrespectful and ignorant(based on the foul language used). This entire post was to support Jen for being classy and standing up against bullies. You turn right around and become a bully by using words against Rose. Maybe her response was alarming which it was but that’s no reason to go so hard or be be so dispectful.
Dear Vivian Simpson,
Have a wonderful day.
I am clearly not going to go in on YOU! I will keep this short and sweet.
For you to judge a women that you definitely dont know, this is why obviously women get into so much confrontation. My daughter is an A Student, watches plenty of Disney etc. I allowed her to watch BBW’s for th episode with Shaunie’s daughter birthday with Mindless Behavior. Royces sex scene, do you really think a parent a responsible one would allow my child to watch that. Of course you wouldnt because you dont know me as a mother and as a person.
I do work for the NBA and am a very positive role model for my daughter and she is surrounded by nothing BUT positive people. So please take your stupid comments elsewhere honey. Wasnt this about Jen?
@ Vivian and Tracy….Really???? Once again—an embarrassing moment for women. Did you two really feel it was necessary to act like Evelyn here? How ironic. You both need to take the advice given to the BBWs—
SHOW THAT YOU HAVE SOME CLASS.
And if you aint got class, fake it till you make it, and pretend you do. Cuz you cant take it back when you act a fool.
Learn to build others up, instead of using your intelligence to insult and tear each other down. It’s okay to disagree. But personal attacks and degrading comments to each other is NOT okay. It shows ignorance. And you both can do better than that.
Now I’m sure you want to tell me to F-off too, but Please take this advice with you. Next time you want to argue with someone, next time you are offended by the comments someone makes, next time someone upsets you– calm down, try to see things from a different perspective, think before you respond, respond graciously, and stay focused on the issue–personal attacks and F-you…not good.
@Rose…I commend you on your comments. You showed how you can disagree gracefully….very classy.
Gywn smh at you honey for trying to counsel me over the internet. This is not “Rate my comment” and that goes for Tracey as well. How you view “classy” is you bet I live my life the way I want it and I dont have to have anyone’s approval being if ya see me or not, read or hear about it. I dont regret shit, I dont take back anything cuz I meant EVERY DAMN WORD. Why should I feel bad cuz your feelings hurt and sad part about it is that ALL OF U ALL ARE WRONG. I personally dont fuckin care how you feel about my comment cuz once again as I told Tracey its mine. So you coming at me hoping to get a hand clap as well. NEGATIVE! Dont you ever in your life compare to me Evelyn!! Im no character on a tv show Bitch I live in reality! Reality is and imma say it again til ya Ratched Hoes get it through ya head. Children ages 0-17 should not watch this show. YOU MAD CUZ I DEFEND WHAT I BELIEVE??? SO FUCKIN WHAT. Im not takin shit you say into consideration.. fuck you and you and your advice. lol I dont need it. What you need to do like Tracey is MIND YO OWN GOT DAMN BUSINESS. I was Not talkin to you nor is this conversation about u. HELL IT WAS OVER AND HERE U COME PUTTIN YO 1 cent in pissin muthafuckas off cuz u feel your right or maybe guilty. YOU WANNNA HANDLE SHIT WITH CLASS, WELL LET ME GIVE YOU SOME ADVICE, “READ AND MOVE THE FUCK ON BITCH CUZ I DONT GIVE A FUCK” Now you may ask.. “why did she go there” ITS CUZ I CAN AND YOU CAN’T SHUT ME UP!….Now this better be the end of this shit cuz I’m tired of yall Bitches tryna tell ppl how to act! Fuck Imma voice my damn opinion and I dont take disrespect to kindly so watch ya fuckin mouth!!
@ROSE Like I said before and again. Your 13 yr old daughter should have not been watching this show, you can lie and say that she didn’t but clearly she did. It say’s so in your statement. This aint no game, im not laughing, im not praking, dont do this for fun. Immma say what I want. You dont like it ooooooooooohhh wweeeelll. nobody else like it ooooohhhh fffuucckiin well.. you can move on with that “CLASS” shit just like I told Gwyn. Aint nobody classy on here including you MISS ROLE MODEL! Yeah you got it! lol Role Model of the yr to let your young daughter watch BBWs.. cuz that’s classy right??
FOH!
Gwen,
Ironically I’m going to agree with Vivian on this one. Don’t ever compare my correspondence with Vivian to the way Evelyn act, There is no comparison to ME. I’d may had called Vivian a name but I call it how I see it. Does it make it right? probably not. But in no way I’m acting like Vivian or Evelyn. I voiced my opinion, was it my business probably not! was it my right, absolutely. Was I attacked for voicing my opinion, of course that was to be expected from someone like Vivian because she automatically will go on the defensive. Vivian you make some points in what you are saying but it is HOW you’re saying it and the tone you’re saying it in. You should be able to get your point across with out attacking the person and degrading their character. We all are guilty of that at one point in our lives. just because someone voice their opinion doesn’t necessarily mean they are attacking you. Its all about PERCEPTION and DELIVERY. Gwynn you’re just about crossing the line yourself. Vivian there’s nothing wrong with a little counsel I’m not JUDGING. We all should take a lesson from (Claire Huxtable) LOL
See what you started ROSE
I cant stand shawne. She is so fake and she lives for the drama. Jennifer has always been my favorite since day one. I hope Jennifer does not come back on BBW. She can do so much better… Ugh I cant stand an attention seeker and thats just what Evelyn and Shawne are. Ugh. Jenn contiue to succeed. EFFYOUSEEKAY the haters! Love Karibean Kalay
I hate all of them. I love Jen. Her attitude and her personality. She should sue them. Bet they keep they hands to themselves from now on
Jennifer I want to know why this action wasn’t taken or voice when other cast mates was slapped?it was funny to you when tami slapp that other girl but now that its u in the hot seat slapping all of sudden seems to be so serious. You reap what you sow. You threw water on ur husband n was totally disrespectful toward him on T.V. So im trying to understand your position in what u r saying. You should’ve voice this wen u meka was slapped but you all laugh at her. Now you see how she was feeling. I didn like how you sit up n let those ladies talk abt ur husband, no matter how the situation was u should never do that. IJS! Since we talkn about Respect.
Tarsha…I agree with you 1000% now the tables are turned and you want to call in lawyers! You are no saint on that show and you are certainly no victim.
I understand what you are saying but most ppl can empathize but not sympathize. I agree this should igg been spoken out against a while ago but we all make mistakes I think that what happened between her and eric showed her that reacting is not always the way to go. Bottom line is that ppl grow and if she wants to stand up for herself she had that right to does she not? meeka also took legal action instead of fighting back. We can’t be so quick to judge.
Ladies.. we love you all. Especially as our black women on National TV. Not being told to go to the back of the bus, but displaying fashion, fame, luxury at its best. Some of us sit and watch you and say wow…Look at their shoes the clothing the earnings.. The earnings by it self has started a world wide effect on our African American females. Everyone wants those earnings or to experience the luxurious lifestyles if only for a day. LADIES!!! THE WORLD IS WATCHING ..LADIES OUR YOUTH IS WATCHING…after the tears attitudes and money is gone is this what you want our youth of 2012 to see. The struggle from our forefathers, is this what they fought so hard for. Did it have to come to this Ladies? Fighting , throwing bottles, the profanity. And ill be the first to say bills need to be paid, my kids have to eat. I know you yours way exceed mine. But please for me Ladies try harder to present to our youth HOW Real LADIES!!! are to conduct themselves. Im a single parent of three two boys and a 10 yo sweet litte girl that looks up to all of you. We Will continue to support you and watch the show. But please Shawnie ..I know you dont know me or even care about me But I love all of you and all my sucessful Black women and one day hope to enjoy life as you do. Please Ladies try harder for our youth.
Great point!!! I think Jen had to learn that lesson the hard way.
For the love of God, please learn proper grammar. You are making yourself sound like the women on this dreadful show. I watched this show for the first time and cannot believe grown women of any race act like this.
To Jennifer this does not make you look weak but more of the hero that day. We go into friendships expecting to be friends for the rest of our lives, but god knows best, when he removes certain people out your life and path, it’s to protect us from all harm and evil. Although we don’t see this and we tend to run back to these people because it’s our comfort zone, but we have to learn to watch as well as pray. As grown women who are we to tell someone they can’t have new friends….how old are we? In life you out grow your friends and that’s not a bad thing or you trying to be better than them. Evelyn and Nia are girls (not women) that will do anything for fame and high ratings even going as far as putting their hands on someone and promoting violence. Please please go as far as you can with your legal work against them. People have to realize that you can’t harm or endanger others and there is no consequences…not true. As for Shaunie and Tami, they are not your friends, Tami act as if she was gonna break it up but she backed away and she could have broken it up she is bigger than both you and Nia. Shaunie stood on the other side screaming Eve Eve all the while smiling with glee that this one fight will get you guys another season and her another paycheck. These two woman wanted to go in the presidential suite to attack you and they did just that. I wish you the best of luck and continue to keep your head up and show them (your cast mates ) who really won.
Firstly, I must say its REALITY TV, none of its real it’s all scripted to appease to a fan base. I do believe however that the current turn of events are disturbing BUT things will continue to stay the same until the ratings drop. When Jenn was on the other side of the fence attacking Royce it was all fine and dandy. Now that she’s the victim she all of a sudden non-violent. If Jenn is so beneath the antics then why won’t she just quit the show? I personally don’t let my daughter watch reality television because it is a bad look. This season Evelyn has been “doing the most” for some reason. But as long as we keep watching it, the more they will fight. If you’re on twitter you can see first hand the hype over all the fights and arguments ect. That’s what the demographics who watch the show like to see and the ratings prove it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and this is mines but I also see what you guys are saying as well I just try to look st it from different viewpoints but me personally I will not be tuning in anymore because it’s childish and full of ignorance!!
When Jen as you say so called attacked Royce it was verbally. She did not put her hands on Royce. There is a difference. You can argue all day and night but when you put your hands on someone it becomes a whole different ball game.
Jen, I can only respect you even more now. The fact that your remain classy after Nia totally disrespected you. Dont stoop to their level. But, get them where out hurts. I’m confuse on why would anyone want to marry that trash. If Nia has any issues with you, why more pick up a phone? I tell you why, she’s a wannabe!!! And Evelyn was behind that.
Love you
Keep up the good work
Cosign…BossladyJ!!
BULLSHIT!!!!! JEN Has Thrown Drinkss And Sommore On Tv. I Think She’s Good At Playin Victim. And No Parent Should Let Their Child Watch Adult Tv. I Have 3 Teenagers And They Don’t Watch.I Raise My. Kids Not Tv
Jen, tell me one thing, was u feeling this way when tami slapped Meka bcus if memory services me correctly. You were the same lady laughing n knew what was about to happen but now that the tables has turned you so serious abt this issue. You should’ve spoke out when it happen to Meka. Wrong is wrong n right is right. Violence should not be the out come but like u twitted; where I’m from? NYC…those were ur words. What was the meaning behind that statement bcus everyone already knew u was from NYC? What’s wrong with living in a 2 bedroom in harlem if that’s all u can do for now?? You no different then the other ladies on the show. Neither one of you ladies is representing in a positive, uplifting matter. You all show the world that life is all about greed,jealousy,getting layed,dressing up in expensive clothing, drinking wine, going to events. When your heart stop beating you can take none of these thing with you. Why not help the homless n poor kids in africa or else where. Jen, Selfishness will never prosper but a giving heart will. Iam #teamNobody! I think all of you should go see WTAL(woman thou are loose) movie by T.D Jakes. Be blessed!
Meeka has a mind of her own and if I’m not mistaking she did take legal action.
Last night’s episode was terrible! My issues with Jenn and Eve…Jenn has been the same way since the beginning of the shows. She is bougie in her own way but I think that is because of the environment she grew up in and not because of her heart. She has definitely grown a lot and I think once she was put on the other side of the fence she has actually gotten a first hand of what they were doing to Royce. But I must admit…Jenn always used words and Eve always resulted to physical actions…why?! Eve pick who she thinks she can beat up on. Jen doesn’t come at her physically and she knows that she won’t so she continues to come at her that way. When she had confrontations with Tami…who threw the first swing?! Tami!! Eve used words until she had to defend herself from Tami. Eve is using the fact that Jenn blog is the reason this started….i think that Eve was just surprised that Jenn actually made her thoughts public and she just felt played! They are in two different points in their lives and it’s just ashame that they can’t support each other differences! TV changes people…a mentality is developed once the fame rolls in. As for Shawnee…Shawnee is a business woman first and foremost!! Business before friends! Reality tv with all this drama brings in ratings and the bucks! Plus she is not the sole person responsible for BBW…but she gets the bigger check and please believe they will still roll in regardless of friendships! Hopefully after this season Eve will grow from all of this and see how crazy it makes her character look! Jenn, I commend you for your growth and I hope it continues once this whole situation dies down!!
omg i need EV to come mess with real Firefox in new orleans we will Egipto her ass and her asst. shaune fake .keep it real jen we love u
I appreciate your effort to enhance the positive portrayal of women on television. Kudos to you. I don’t appreciate your making yourself a martyr though. We should also be trying to teach our children to value others, different experiences, etc. It’s shameful to me that you ridiculed someone who’s home you once shared for having a “two bedroom apartment in Harlem.” I don’t condone violence, and while their behavior is much more shameful, are you truly proud of the message you’re sending, not as a response to their behavior in blogs and interviews but the message your own actions send. Words hurt as well, and this season you’ve seemed to embrace your “bourgieness” in a very classist and classless way. I no more enjoy seeing you verbally berate someone you yourself indicated you were once genuinely friends with than I do watching Evelyn hop barefoot across a table. You’re sending a message to members of our community as well and while not as bad as theirs, it’s also not a very good one.
Good interview. This violence must be addressed, it’s un lady like and yes kids watch the show and are influenced. The way Jennifer handles herself is something they should look up to, however, they instead look up to Evelyn and Naya for social skills. Its sad, because black women already have these stereotypes, but now it looks as though so does the 1% that happen to be black.
I LOVE WATCHING BBW, ITS VERY ENTERTAINING N THE DRAMA IS HILARIOUS. EVERY REALITY TV SHOW COMES WITH DRAMA SO EXPECT IT ONCE YOU SIGN UP. THE BIGGER FOOL YOU ACT THE MORE FANS N MONEY YOU GET. SAD BUT SHOCKING. NOW ABOUT JEN BEING SLAP WAS SADDEN, I ACTUALLY LOVE JEN. I LOVE HOW SHES SO LAID BACK N REALLY DONT ENTERTAIN THESE PEOPLE. THEY ONLY PICK ON JEN BECAUSE THEY KNOW SHE WANT DO TO MUCH. HOWEVER I DO THINK JEN WAS WRONG ABOUT THE BLOG OR WHOMEVER WROTE THE BLOG. IF EV IS YOUR FRIEND AS SOON AS U READ OR HEARD ABOUT IT U SHOULD’VE ADDRESS IT. JEN CAN’T GET UPSET BECAUSE EV WANTS TO BE WITH A HOE (CHAD). NO MATTER HOW WRONG YOUR FRIEND MAY BE, YOU HAVE TO ROLL WITH IT THERE DECISION. FRIENDS NEED TO KEEP FRIENDS OUT OF THERE RELATIONSHIP N THAT WILL SOLVE EVERYTHING.
Jen you have done well by not fighting back physically and also I think the likes of Tami, evelyn, Nia or what ever her name is are all bullies, Shaunie on the other end is using u all to get the show’s ratings up. You should be very careful of these women as they are all hyprocrites and could have done better in handling you and Evelyn’s situation instead they made it more worse and speak ill of u behind you. My advice for you is to get out of the show, you are doing well for yourself and God will continue to bless you.if you have to be in the show let it also be about your work and not your personal life with anyone like Shaunie n Royce ae doing. Shaunie wouldn’t put her personal business out there and pretend she’s coool and calm however she’s one of the devil using you all. Be careful now and even in the future and do not trust no one. Be as neutral as you can be and be in peace with all.
It’s a different story when its your ass getting tagged…
I wish that Jennifer had stood up for Meeka Claxton who was punched by Tami last year. This show is so embarrassing. You have a couple of uneducated, violent morons like Evelyn and Tami and many young girls following them because according to these girls, “they keep it real”. No fools, keeping it real is being able to use your brains instead of your private part, and instead of violence. It’s strange that the dark skinned girls – Meeka, Jennifer, Royce, Kenya are the ones that get picked on. Has anyone noticed that? Well done to Royce for standing up to these bullies and well done Jennifer for not stooping low to their levels and fighting. Please, don’t mix with people like this ever again. You’re an educated woman. It’s disgraceful that VH1 would allow this type of show to be on TV. As a person who fights hate, I don’t watch the show but I read about it the day after it’s on TV. This is disgraceful behavior for grown women with grown kids to behave in such appalling manner. “Say no to Hate and Bullying”. Join us at http://www.educatetheworldinc.org and please say no to Hate.
TEAM MASHONDA & JENNIFER!!! u ladies truly rock, true definition of class and grace, keep up the good work ladies!!!! we need u!!!
This comment is for all the Jen haters. Yes Jen has her faults. Hell we all do. The things Jen has done all of us have done before at one time or another and if we did not do it we have friends that have done it and we got a laugh out of it. But this whole situation is about people putting there hands on people. I dont care what anybody says she NEVER put her hands on anybody. PEOPLE NEED TO KEEP THEIR HANDS TO THEIR SELVES PERIOD POINT BLANK.
Jen if you were so sick of the drama and being in a non healthy environment why have you not quit the show. Dina Manzo on the housewives of New Jersey left in mid season because she felt things had really gotten out of hand with the drama and violent behavior. It didn’t take her getting slapped to make her leave. Mekka left after she was slapped and didn’t return when it happen to her. It is hard to believe your stance is to stay away from the drama and violent behavior when we have seen you laugh at it, instigate it, and be a part of it yourself then say you are over it but don’t walk away from it. I don’t understand how people are applauding you and you still wish to be in the mist of it all. Your actions are quite contradictory.
I was just so taken back by the whole thing. I like the show but the constant catty fights and so much anger towards only a selected few is embarassing to me being a woman. I feel like we talk about stopping bullying with our kids,but we have grown women demonstrating the same thing on televison. I do applaud Jennifer for not taking herself to that level on national television and acting in a manner a woman should act.
i felt bad watching last night episode because it just seems like since jennifer is on a better path than these woman are, and since shes taking the higher road on situations they are trying to pick on her to get a reaction out of her and make her jump out of character. and jennifer is soo beyond that childish shit!!
I’m team Jennifer because she’s a classy black woman and I think she carry herself and a good way she should’ve had to go thru that she’s grown and so are those other old women theyre setting a bad example for young black women or young women period behaving in that manner smh
I don’t know, i guess i’m sort of sitting on the fence on this one. Jennifer reminds me so much of myself. She’s classy, smart, and educated and highly intelligent not to mention courageous, however although i don’t condone violence I must say, you have the right to defend yourself be it physically or legally. As pretty and confident as my pretty ole Mississippi southern bell self is after Nia put her hands on me it would have been ALL OVER for Nia. OMG, Jennifer there comes a time where you have to fight back. I understand not fighting Eric when he threw the drink in your face, he’s a man (only by gender) so you were right not to strike back and I hope you pressed assault charges on him as well. But for another female (I won’t use the word woman in Nia’s case because she’s clarly not one) to physically strike you you had EVERY RIGHT TO PHYSICALLY DEFEND YOURSELF. I know you’re not a fighter but perhaps you need to take self defence classes. I say this because as bold as these women are (Evelyn and Nia) to strike you while cameras are rolling there is no telling what they will do to you without cameras. For your own safety please take self defence classes. I too was bullied in grade school, high school, and in my community so much so that my mother had to go to the school and beg the class to ‘leave her baby along… PLEASE’ with tears in her eyes. I was so humbled and embarrassed at the same time I knew I had to fight back. I took self defence classes and attended motivational seminars and loe and behold, here come the cattiness and bullying. The outcome, lets just say I just attended my 20th year high school reunion and those same two girls that thought they were going to double team me still wear scars. Am I proud of it, of course not because in the professional world it’s not a good look and you were absolutely right, who’s going to take you seriously acting a fool on television, but at the same time you have every right to defend yourself. I have a friend who’s a lawyer and even she said ‘Even if Jennifer would have physically fought her and harmed her, it would have been justified because she was struck first’. But you keep on being YOU Jennifer and continue to be the best You you can be. When you know better you do better. When i advanced in my career i stopped hanging around the same group of people as well. Some understand, some are angry but what did Ne Ne from RHWOA say ‘Growth is a beautiful thing’. ~ailuj~
I need to be honest here. I have watched all seasons of BBW. I was never a fan of Jennifer. To me she just sounded phony. BUT I must say as much as Evelyn was my favorite, she has left a sour taste in my mouth. She’s ghetto. No class and not Lady like at all. That slap was totally uncalled for. I’m sorry Jen had to deal with that. Evelyn seems to be upset that she is being ignored by Jen. If she thinks Chad is a catch, he is gorgeous to me but she can’t control him. He’s always going to be a player and any women who accepts a man to cheat needs some serious therapy. Jennifer I wish u well and continue being a lady. Evelyn already lost her place in CLASS!!!!!
I am proud of jen. For been the bigger person and handling This the right way i also think that you have out grown This show its time u get your own show,they are just messy and Elv. is to old to be acting like she have no home training and tammi, Elv. And shanee are so fake i dont have no respect for them why bully someone who is not fighting back.Jen keep your head up i got mad respect and Love For ya you are so much better
A person of true class would not be fueling this situation with tweets, blogs, and interviews over and over again especially if it was so hard for them to think about or watch. They would state how they felt about the situation once and would have put it to rest. They would have asked everyone else to do the same and if they couldn’t at least do not expect them to address it again. Dina Manzo did just that and even with all the craziness that went on with Meeka I don’t recall her reliving her situation all over the place. If you have moved past it remove yourself from it and the negative energy that comes with it.
I don’t know if you know anything about contracts but you dont know how expensive her contract is to just say quit the show. im sure mekkas contract wasn’t as stringent as hers is. it was probably costing the show more to keep her with filming the huge fight she was inand her lawsuit. the while Dina thing is irrelevant I dont know if you saw the Vh1 special on her wedding but she is very loaded so you can’t compare. It’s so easy to say do this do that but just like certain ppl get paid more on reality tv their contracts are also different.
I would like to just say that first of all the assistant should have never been there and the first place, she actually came there on bull crap if you ask me. she was already fired up before they even seen Jennifer. I can’t believe that she’s that mad because someone doesn’t talk to you anymore. maybe it’s because she knows that she works for evelyn and she know that it will be alot of drama if she continues to associates with her so nothing personal she just fell back and moving her life and a different direction, peoples have to realize that life is about changes,developments,challenges,growth,ups,down,good,bad health,determination, kidness,forgivness,advancements etc…. so people will walk in and out of your life but frieds are with you to the end and not afraid to watch you grow and will still have your back through thick and thin no matter what the situation is. I truley believe that evelyn wants to be firends with Jennifer again, but realizes that Jennifer is so over the Evelyn issues and is moving on and she can’t take it, that’s crazy that mess that happend on national televison was ridiculous and made no sense and shouldn’t have happened what made me so angry was the fact that Evelyn came across the table like this wasn’t a person that she spent many years of her life hanging around sharing tears ups and downs with that was really really crazy to me and that assistant really act a fool I don’t know if she thought it would make her look good or what but it really didn’t I hope she gets whats she has coming to her that was really no need. I just want to know if Tammi forgave evelyn for sleeping with her Ex husband, but was her husband when she slept with him why on earth couldn’t she for forgive her best friend and sit down and have a seriouly talk like friends and adults.. I just hope and pray that Jennifer keeps her head up and know that what she has on her is God favor and it aint fair but when peoples doesn’t understand it they act the way that some of them are acting.. Gog bless you all.
That episode just made me dislike all of them in that room….including shaunie…..its was like a set up….they all need to grow up
“There are “friends” who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.- Proverbs 18:24. Jenn, continue to move forward. We are here on this earth to learn and grow from our mistakes and it is obvious you are moving on and into a new season. Continue to move in a positive direction because there are a lot of young ladies who are “watching” you. Mashonda, thank you for this interview. Very much needed to be addressed. Looking soo forward to hearing more from your Reality Check Organization. Love you both!!!
It was difficult to watch last night’s episode. To witness Minority Women behave in such a negative manner, instigate, attack, and turn a blind eye from an event that could have been completely avoided is Disturbing. Unfortunately, foolery seems to get these women more time on camera. This show could’ve been used as a platform to Empower, Enrich, and Enlighten women and impressionable girls alike. Moreover, the fact these women, “with the exception of Jennifer”, are Moms is Scary! In no Way, Shape, or Form can I identify with these ladies. They are Clearly Not a Representation of Me! Shame on You Shaunie! Shame on VH-1! Abuse in form is Not Acceptable.
jennifer i feel like it was wrong for u to get hit nobody should get hit but u contradict ur self alot because when tami slap meeca nd all the cattyness was going on u sat back nd laaugh not trying to show support or even feel bad about the situation .. but when the table is turn when its on you its such a bigggg dealll nd everybody should feel bad .. treat people how u want to be treated because doing all the last season u seem like a bully urself judging royce on what she wear nd how her hair is .. u stop talkin to her because evelyn did .. being nasty toward people is no way to act nd u cant be a role model if u dont change yourself first .. i think you a smart pretty lady but u need to learn to treat people right all the time as u want people to do unto u .
True! All True! Amen!
Amen, she thinks she is better than others and she needs to realize that she is NOT. She is NOT a princess, grown women can’t be princesses. Thank you because Jenn needs to be accountable for her bullying behavior too. She was a mean girl as well cosigning the foolishness.
I think you are right, Jen was all up for the cattyness in previous seasons, but she has changed. And now she’s not kissing Evelyn’s ass and and going along with anything Eve says and does. She’s becoming her own person, and it is killing Eve. Evelyn hates her for it, and feels her independence is a betrayal to her friendship.
Evelyn is a hoodrat nothing more nothing less and the assistant tryna get her 15min of fame she need to sit her bald headed ass down somewhere. And Shawnee be starting shit on the low with her punk ass
I’m all for that petition! Someone needs to put an end to this.
Sooooo Jen is soooo against being slapped in the face but ummmmm she wasnt talking all this positivity when Meeka got slapped! So miss me with the BS and she will sign on IF they get a next season IF they even ask her to return. What other money is she gonna make?
Jenn I thank you for remaining a lady. You do not owe those catty girls any explanation as to why you want to be around a different set offriends. I think its great. Those troublemaking females just like to keep trouble stirred up. Who wants to sit in a cell following a fist fight? Evelyn is not even a basketball wife. Chad plays football. She shouldnt even be there. And Chad is an attention ho… He has that broad wrapped around his finger to be stupid. Hold your ground and be careful around those witches. Glad you produced that document to Shaunie for your protection. Be Blessed..
My heart goes out to Jennifer! Eve needs to really stop shes acting really immature & ridiculous! She always needs to bring up Jennifer when they are all together ending up to cause a scene! Really Shaunie? You really need to check up on your girls making women look scandolous its not leaving a good impression, shows you as Eve will do anything for fame & ratings!! Jennifer i admire the way you handle your self & how you have moved on!!
You shouldn’t have been hit and I applaud you for not being violent but JEN YOU SHOULD NEVER JUDGE SOMEONE BY WHAT THEY HAVE ! I have found you shallow a lot of the time and maybe look in the mirror and change. Your not a A list celeb so who are you to come at someone ? So please stop being so shallow it’s pathetic.
I know that Jennifer is not a fighter. However, I wish that she would whip Evelyn’s ass. In addition, sad to say but Jennifer is experiencing KARMA. She have stood by on many occassions with Evelyn and dogged other people out. You reap what you sow.
I had a flash back of a old jerry springer episode, love not hate, as my mother would say you all to pretty to be acting this way……
I am TEAM JEN for taking the High Road.
I am still trying to figure out why they call this show “Basketball Wives”….I agree with Tami Roman they should change the name.
People come in your life for a season, reason, and for life. Evelyn and Jennifer season is up! People come in your life to either add to it or take something from it. Evelyn is no longer adding to Jenn’s life.
I don’t understand why ppl feel they should stay friends… Jennifer continue to move on with your life…this next phase of your life does not include these women and that is ok…When God is ready to move you on in your journey it’s not meant for some ppl to go along with you on the journey…Keep your head up!! and I do understand what you are going through because…I am a BBW….for real…13yrs of NBA experience..
That is so true. If Evelyn no longer wants to associate with you and she is to immature to be in the same room with you then let it go. Go on the renunion show with your court papers.
This episode was ridiculous! Shaunie is so FAKE. she acts as if she is the cool and boss lady of the show, yet she starts the drama. She knew something would go down by inviting ev and Jen in the same place. She urks the hell out of me acting high and mighty towards everyone. And that girl that slapped Jen needs to be charged or something! Who u think u are to go up and hit someone and think it’s cool? If I was Jen I would sue and press charges against her ass,money or no money! But Jen did act like a young lady the whole time, and o respect her more now!!!
Jen I’m sorry you had to even go through that on tv. To be honest none of you ladies should act in that manner. These ladies are wayyyy to old to be acting the way they act on tv. That Evenly WOW is all I can say she have a lot of growing up to do. To say she planning a wedding and suppose to be so “HAPPY” hmmm I can not tell. A “HAPPY” person would not act the way she act. I honestly think she jealouse of Jen success. Even though Jen is going through a divorce he ex is making sure she is ok and what did her ex bb player do nothing but get his self in more debt. Her language on national TV is horrible. Jen you are at a point in your life where u need to cut the ties with BBW. Really in my opinion you have out grown thoses ladies cuz really they are still on a high school level and clearly u not. To be honest I really feel bad for all of these ladies children who # 1 see they mom act crazy on tv #2 there friends may poss see them act crazy on tv. I also agree they need to change the name of the show as a matter of fact it should not have never. Been named Basketball Wives because none of them was a wife all except one and now she going through a divorce. I pray all these ladies get it together and start acting there age. Also Evenly may want to leave Kenya Bell alone she is really crazy. I read she stabbed her husband so I don’t know why Evenly think she’s any different. I’m just saying. Be bless
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Mrs Jennifer
I am so proud of you this season, not only are beautiful (and sexy lol) but you are a true lady of class. Please continue to let Evelyn make a fool out of her self. You fight back in there pockets not with your beautiful hands. You are a strong black women. May God continue to bless you in all you do.
Proud Black Man
Jen I guess its different this season for you being in the same place Meeka was last season! It seems to me that when Tammi hit Meeka it was all good. Now that its you the viewers are supposed to feel sorry for you. I hope you’ve learned a valuble lesson that noone deserves to be treated this way! Maybe now you can see how Meeka must have felt. They say you have to walk in someone shoes to really know what it is to be them. How does it feel?
Unfortunately, you have a point Gucci
The attack on Jennifer is simply for outrageous for ratings. Probably unannounced to Jennifer, VH1 and Shaunie set this up. GOD will prevail because Jennifer is trying to do the right thing. They only try to attack the weak. Jennifer my advice is to take some self defense classes and not be a victim anymore. The justice system can do only so much. You need to be able to protect yourself as well. GOD Bless you!
I think Jennifer is handling this perfectly. I stopped watching the show sometime ago because I got sick of the images being displayed. When I heard about what happened I thought to myself, yep I did the right thing. You are handling this very classy keep it that way. I wish there were a way you could somehow include Evelyn because she perpetuated the whole situation.
My primary concern is that the highest rated black reality shows on VH1 are executive produced by Black women. It’s disturbing to me that they intentionally stage scenarios where these women can instigate, promote and sit on the sidelines of Drama. Jen, you have always been my favorite BBW. You were indeed one of the few women actually married to an NBA player and I understand the growing pains of surviving a divorce as I’m going through a Divorce as well. You can’t take all of your friends past, present or future with you on this journey…some will fall by the wayside and others will take a different course. Continue striving to be a better You…God will reveal the abundance He has in store for you.
What bothers me is that people are so quick to bring up past seasons. But if you look back Jennifer was never the first to jump at anyone, it was always the person she was with who provoked and bullied people. Tammy never messes with anyone unless they mess with her. Ms. O’Neal never bothers anyone, and Royce is always being picked on. There is only one true bully in this whole situation. I honestly use to love Evelyn and basketball wives, she was my favorite character! But now I feel like this show is taking a turn for the worst and even though it is at times entertaining, it is starting to become very sad. Young girls and young adults need to understand in no way shape or form is violence the answer. Being bullied is very near to my heart because all throughout school I was bullied and the first thing people want you to do is fight. Young people think because you do not fight you are a punk which is not true and that should be the message. Having such a strong hate towards someone over “words on a blog” that you have to resort to fighting and you’re a grown women is sad. Fight with words of intelligence or fight with kind words or fight by turning the other cheek. Fame, Fortune , and money is a powerful thing, but when u get 60 and older and the beauty fades, money is gone or doesn’t matter, what do you have left? I just wish production would see that the show was better when all the characters could at least be in the same room together. Yes fighting, arguing, and all that do make “good views” but it has now reached out of hand. Every show of basketball wives is a fight and to be quite honest, it is portraying us as a culture and as women in a horrible light!!! So Jennifer I am happy that you took the higher road but some of the comments you made were not nice at all, even though it came out of anger and spite. I just hope all the young girls out there know that violence is never the answer in relationships, friendships, marriages, or families. You will face so much adversity in life as an adult, you can’t fight at every waken moment.
When i watched this episode, it relly pissed me off, and im a dude, i wanted to jump through he damn t.v and beat the hell out of evelyn and niya, whats up with them women, trying to get on t.v and act up and show out, but im glad jen did what she had to do as a women, and besides i dont want nobody scaring up dat PRETTY FACE LOL, and I think its more to just what evelyn saying,she is going through more issues, she just not saying it, they way she acting on t.v no man is never going to want her, and if a man do, he aint right his damn self, and Shaunie, I have no respect for her, i think she condone all ths crap, i think they all jealous of jen, 1.INDEPENDENT BUSINESS WOMEN, 2.PRETTY AND 3. NOT PAYING HOODRATS NO ATTENTION, AND thats what getting to them the most, but I pray that the legal system handle this and her and eve will never ever think about putting they hands on anyone again, OH AND JENNIFER I THINK U WOULD BE A GOOD SPEAKER FOR ABUSE AND BATTERED WOMEN,I LOVE U JENNIFER
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Watching this last episode of basketball wives only adds fuel to the fire about why black women are inadequate!! We have to do better ladies and let the world know that this kind of behavior does not represent us as a whole race of women but more or less singles out the ones who will do anything to seek fame and attention! Any time you are having a disagreement with someone and your first course of action is violence it says a lot about your character as a person and as a woman.
Educating yourself with knowledge is essential to exist in this world today and not who’s the biggest bully like Tami, Evelyn and this Nia chick. If you can go home and watch yourself behave like a pack of wolves on TV and you are ok with that then you need to do some serious self-esteem building exercises and figure out why you think so low of who you are as a woman that you would result to such extremes by belittling yourself for a few dollars. Shaunie says that she doesn’t have as much control over the show as people think but she has enough executive power to do damage control if she really wanted to advocate for portraying a better imagine of black women! Shame on this show and all the other reality shows out here that tear down the black woman imagine. People have to realize that being rich in your mind, body and soul minus a porche and a berkin bag or red bottoms are far more fulfilling at the end of the day then sailing your soul to the devil that is white media for a couple of bucks!!
We as the viewers have to make the consious efforts to not watch this show and give them the ratings! If you tune in to watch because of your own guilty pleasure then STOP complaining. After watching the foolishness that went down Monday night that was definitely it for me! I would rather empower myself then spend my time lining the pocket of ghetto hood rats looking to make a quick buck.. This show and the rest like it are why you have lizard face druggies like little wayne talking about black women!! Imagine that. When we have someone like little Wayne throwing us to the wolves the world is in trouble. Brian White says that the majority of black america are represented by these sorts of shows and so the intelligent black america is the minority so lets prove em wrong and show them a full glass of class with our ass cheeks turned to the wind telling these jokers to kiss them and anyone who thinks like them but women that means we have to band together and do this collectivly!! Who’s with me??
Nothing like litigation to wake people up. Show should be cancelled, period. There is no talent in the show, only opportunists.
I think evelyn needs a beat down,sorry,but she is all mouth!!
Exactly.
I applaud Jen for staying above the nonsense. At the end of the day, you can look back on this time in her life and how you carried yourself. I am also glad she apologized to Royce for her part in previously co-signing the bullying from Ev to her. And make no mistake, that is major BULLYING on the show that is obviously encouraged by the producers, including Shaunie. Notice she always backs off making any firm stance. She should have told Evelyn from a long time ago, USE YOUR WORDS, not your fists. Evelyn apparently needs to up her anger mgmt classes, because they are not working. She is a mother and supposedly planning a wedding. Why so much venom? And don’t get me started on that little pit bull Nia that was brought on solely to perform the cowardly act of ASSAULTING Jen, especially since they all got the notice from her lawyer.
I hope VH1 is made to pay for the pain and suffering and humiliation. I recall they gave Tiffany (NY) Pollard a 3show deal and some $$ to compensate being assaulted numerous times on Flavs Reality show.
Finally – I hope Jen gets the strength to leave this nonsensical show. It may be lucrative, but what does it profit a woman to gain the whole world and lose her soul. Her marriage which may have been saved, if not for the non-encouraging women who surrounded her. I wish Jen all the luck.
I am sorry but I am not buying Jenn’s sudden concern for our youth. You see BBW has shown violence since its inception, Suzie threw a drink on the girl Jen called “Plastic Surgery” when she has a boob job, Jen was there when Eve threw the drink at Royce in season 2, Jenn smirked and was thoroughly entertained when Tami attacked Meeka in Italy and laughed about it the next day….Jen NEVER ONCE spoke out against violence then or before these incidents occurred, she laughed about it WITH her then “friends.” What Nia did was wrong but Jenn should not be shocked this IS what that show has BEEN about. Only difference is she’s the target of the violence and NOW it isn’t so entertaining or laughable. Mashonda, if she is serious about it, she should leave the show because violence and criminal behavior has been at the very fabric of this disaster. In reality, people have repercussions for assaulting someone but on this show, they just sit and laugh about the deviant behavior over cocktails.
Reality check, Jenn has consigned and laughed when other were on the receiving end of violence on BBW…the chickens are just coming back to roost.
I am so proud of Jen!!!! THAT….is how a lady should act. I am embarrassed however by Ev. How could you let a man that is clearly a dog tear you away from a long term friendship? Ok…Jen gave her opinion…well…based on what I’ve seen…you love love love giving your opinion too and you run your mouth and get mess started all the time…in no way are you a “victim”…just a damn fool.Ev….you really need to get over yourself!!!
i agree that violence is not the answer.
this comment in in regards to how reality televistion effects young impressionable children. (i’m a mother of two little girls.) i would intervene as the parent and talk to my children about how this type of behavior is unacceptable.
i don’t care who my daughters are watching on television! in a sense that as their mother, i am going to be their role model! i will be the one to teach them to respect themselves.
parents are the ones ultimately responsible for their children’s behavior. i would like to suggest that maybe your orginization help parents find ideas to have these types of conversations with their children regarding the violence on television.
going in on the reality television industry is futile. your time and energy would be better spent on focusing on the children, on reaching out to the parents on how the violence on television is effecting their children ad what they can do to stop it.
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OK FIRST OF ALL EVILYN IS MARRYING CHAD FOR VALIDATION…SHE IS A KNOWN HOE AND FOR A MAN TO HAVE BEEN WITH HER FOR OVER TEN YEARS AND NOT MARRY HER AND CHEATED ON HER SHOWED HE WASNT THINKING OF MARRIAGE…HE KNEW WHAT KIND OF PERSON EV WAS AND IS NOW SHE DONT LIKE THAT WORLD KNOWS SHE IS A HOE AND SHE’S HURT FOR WHAT YOU DID IT…SHE MESSED UP PPLS HOMES MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS CAUSE SHE IS THAT CHICK…NO JEN IS NOT BOUT THIS LIFE BOO SHE IS A RESPECTABLE WOMAN WHO FINALLY SAW THRU YOU AND SAID SHE DIDNT WANT NO PARTS, GOT HERSELF TOGETHER AND IS MOVING FORWARD…YOUR STILL BITTER CAUSE SHE KNOWS YOUR EVERY SECRET AND FEAR THAT SHE WILL TELL THE WORLD…SHE WAS RIGHT ABOUT YOU AND CHAD AND I DO HOPE YALL MARRY CAUSE NO ONE ELSE NEEDS TO BE WITH YOU GUYS…AND THE JEALOUSY YOU HAVE FOR JEN IS EXAUSHTING YOU LOVED HER WHEN SHE WAS DOWN AND NOW SHE DOING GOOD AND SHE MOVED ON YOU BITTER…GIRL GET YO LIFE AND STOP TRYING TO HURT HERS…GO JEN DO YO THANG HUNNY
Amen. I hear that.
I’ve only seen this show a few times. I did not see last night’s episode. However, if you’ve seen one episode, you’ve seen them all.
These types of shows undermine everything positive, self-respecting black women struggle to dispel. It feeds into the perception that we are receptacles for any man who has a dollar in his pocket; we are illegitimate baby machines; we lack substance; we’re selfish, class and animalistic.
The image we project is unmatched to any degrading social institution. Hands down, we think far less of ourselves then any group/race could ever. It is evident in the way we live our lives.
What’s worse than slavery? When we consent to enslave the only thing that is truly ours: our mind, our body and our spirit.
I teach middle school-ages 11-14. It’s no wonder vile name calling, physical assault and promiscuity pass for entertainment for the young girls in my class. These vices are staples in their everyday lives.
Just like the show, very few of these girls will ever have the honor or privilege of truly becoming a wife.
It grieves my soul…..
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I have not been really watching the show this year but the shows I have watch makes me sick. I feel Jennifer have more class than any of these chicks. Its sad to see mid-age women fighting like animals. Especially women of color. SMH
The show is just become stupid and its the new WWE or WWF.lol Its sad and its not good tv. I hate seeing women of color fighting. If we don’t have a enough problems, We have to be on tv acting like animals. Jennifer, you walk away from the BS and I have to respect you fot that.
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Sorry to say we live in a society that some humans will sell their soul for a pretty penny…and resort to anything to stay relevant.VIOLENCE!!
is never okay,shame on the producers who produced BBW and the network who aired it for ratings and cashing in at the expense of some female who lacks common sense and morals.”what does it profit a man to loose is soul and gain the whole world.” Jen dear you have to take some responsibility too,on another note glad you are taking a stand against Violence.
I think Evelyn needs an old fashion ass beating on that show I wish I could be on it She would not bully me and throw things at me I would me her match !it’s getting really crazy and I’m not going to watch it anymore.Please boycott the basketball wifes show and get new new cast memebers Evelyn needs to go and someone is going to really get hurt on your show.
I watched this show once and will never watch it again. I have NEVER seen such ignorance in all my life. This show gives black women the worst image ever. They should be ashamed of themselves.
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I cant stand Shawnee,Evelyn or Tami.. They are three fake ass females who I woulod love to see get they ass whooped in the streets. Tami and Shawnee instead of stopping the bs they condone it. They love to see confrontation. I hate weak petty females like them. They have to hide behind someone else drama to avoid they own. Evelyn I would love to see her in the streets in Chicago. Whew she would get bent all the way back .They feel sorry For Jen if Evelyn gets hold to her.. Let some real females get hold to Evelyn. Please they all some grown goofies with no life.
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Jennifer is setting a great example for women, and I applaud her for not fighting back physically. However like it was mention before, she has been getting picked on since this season started. And it comes a time when you have to stand up for yourself.
As for Ev, with her and Jennifer being best friends in the beginning, and I felt she always took up for Jennifer because Jennifer just comes off as a really laid back, no drama type of person. It just saddens me to know that Ev is the main one stirring up the BS…
As for Nia, ghetto fabulous azz, b*tch do something with them thin azz sides. Maybe Ev needs to pay you a lil more so you can get you a nice sew in! LMBAO….And I’m not going to comment on that wig that she had. Because I’m sure everyone is still laughing at that…
Shawnee, yes you’re coming off as FAKE as HELL….And so is Tammy. I’m still confused how Ev and Tammy is BF now when Tammy dogged walked her azz! That just shows that people will only pick on those people they know are not going to defend themselves.
Jennifer do you…their just mad. You can never shake them HATERS!!!!!
I am so happy Jennifer responded the way she did. It is so disgusting when grown women belittle themselves by fighting. But Jennifer I do have to say I am more elated that now you can see Evelyn, Shaunie and hopefully you can see Suzie for the the people they are. I think had it not been for Evelynn in your ear, your marriage could have been saved. She was miserable, she didn’t have a husband, Shaunie is guilty of that too, and you did. They were jealous. Suzie is a snake and she makes me sick to my stomach. She has no life, and I feel Tammie should stop edging these fights on, she has proven to be a friend to none. She should remember how she felt when she was the one on the pain receiving end. I think you are beautiful and have a lot going for you but remember and always remember that whats goes around comes around.
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I must say that I am very disgusted with Evelyn’s behavior. That show she put on claiming to empathize with those that struggle to make it was fake, fake, and more fake. First, I have witnessed many comments about outfits, hair styles, shoe fashion, etc. coming from her mouth. Secondly, how do you empathize with the “hood” when you sell shoes that are $1000 a pair. Being a bully does not make you cute, more famous, or worthy of pity for any weight placed on your shoulders. The fact that Evelyn doesn’t believe in forgiveness, understanding, and true friendship is a true disappointment. This is especially because she is in the position to uplift and encourage young girls and women in a positive light. I am truly disappointed that I was ever an Evelyn Lozada fan.
I am so feeling you on that. Its sad because Shaunice plays real but she’s full of it too and Tami was acting real but now her and Evelyn are bestie now after knowing that Evelyn f!@#$k her now ex-husband. These females need a life and act their age and not their shoe size. Real Talk. They’re mad at Jennifer for doing the grown-up thing but in the real world someone can kill you over dumb stuff. So charge are never compared to someone not give a damn in the street and killing you over fighting. So I think these chicks need to watch their steps and change really fast.
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She has tormented Royce repeatedly regarding her choice of clothing, calling her a bum, commenting on her fake Herve dress, busted white shoes, hair, etc.
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Last night’s episode of BBW was a disgrace! It was painful
for me to watch how they treated Jennifer. I am glad she
is taking the legal route with these hoodrats. I will no
longer watch this show!
JEN I LOVE YOU. EVE IS JUST A BULLY AND EVERYONE SEE HER FOR WHO SHE IS TRASH
Thanks Jen for being the bigger person and kind of lady that I would want my 13 yr old daughter to look up to. No one should suffer that kind of abuse from anyone.The show has turned into a mental disaster to all sane viewers. I really don’t care to watch it anymore. Matter of fact it should be replaced with new positive wives or taken off the air. I’m just shocked at Shaunie’s behavior and two-sided image all together. I can’t believe this was Shaq’s wife. Now, I understand why he wasn’t 100 in the marriage. Who knows what else she engaged in. This BBW behavior has to end… Keep doing you Jen….the mature,grown lady stuff….
It was not only hard watching that episode but the episode that followed because the adults in that room were “okay” with the incident. They actually felt physical violence was justified because Jennifer didn’t shut her mouth. I simply do NOT understand that. Nia had no right putting her hands on Jennifer and then they start screaming about, “That’s the real Jennifer.” What they need to do is find their real selves because if what they portray on television is real, they need some serious deliverance!
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Way to Go Jen, you owe no man an explanation of who you are and who you associate yourself with. Please represent black women or women period that violence do not help the situation. Yes, young girls are watch, mine is and I have to explain who is right and who is wrong. This will be another notch under your belt to stardom. You go Jen.
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I appreciate the fact that Jen you are standing up on your own two feet and representing yourself in a positive light.. At one point and time I thought you and Evelyn’s relationship could have been salvaged but now I feel you two need to go your own separate ways. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and just because someone doesn’t like what you say doesn’t give them the right to put their hands on you…
Evelyn’s behavior is disgusting! It is unbelievable that a middle aged woman would look for opportunities to fist fight on television.
What happened to Jennifer was out of line but let’s not forget that she participated in her fair share of bullying, following behind Evelyn for the first three seasons. True, she never laid hands on anyone, she sat back and watched her “friend” act like a bully while cheering her on. Now the tables have turned, as they almost always does, and she is upset.
As a viewer, I’m not offended by the fact that these are women of color acting foolish. I know how I carry myself and none of these women represent me. What I am disgusted with seeing is people who are perceived as being “weaker” being targeted. Tami, Evelyn, Nene, Chrissy…they are all loud, overbearing bullies. I know so many females who watch these characters on television and wish they were on the receiving end of their behavior because watching them go after the weaker individuals is disgusting.
True that. Its all peaches & roses until someone get hurt. But regardless, no one deserves to be hit.
To be honest all the bullying from the start sickened me. Showing women living the so-called life….vacationing, shopping, lunches all without showing how they come up on their funds would cause some young women to want to come up by taking a short cut into some man’s bed or someone husbands bed. Shuani should remember how painful that is, after all she made a complete butt of herself for trying to charge up a woman for sleeping with her husband. Jen I hope you distance yourself so far away from these group of nut jobs & low lives that you forget that they even exist. After all, we soon will. I’m soooooo proud that you are not seeking to get violent with miss cheap shot low life. She should feel as dumb as a box of rocks for letting Evil Lyn bring her on the show to be the fall guy for her. Again I’m so proud of you because I’m still a work in progress…I am not sure how things would have turned out for that little girl putting her hands on someone like she was raised by animals!!!!!
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